Building excellent soulmate relationships
Building great soulmate relationships in life takes time and commitment. If you choose to dedicate time and decide to commit, you will surely build a relationship that will bring you joy and satisfaction. Some keys to building good relationships include:
Connect with the one you love
Take some time to remind your soulmate that they are special. Write them a note, send them an email, text them or call them during the day at work. Do something that you know will be meaningful to your partner. Make sure your efforts are not wasted; connect with them with their love language in mind. Be intentional about making a daily connection in the middle of your busy life.
Plan your time
The old saying “if you don’t plan and you will plan to fail” is very true when it comes to soulmate relationships. Planning your time is of the utmost importance to building excellent soulmate relationships. The average couple is so busy with work, catching up with friends and other responsibilities that sometimes, in an established relationship, they may not plan on spending time together. Review your calendars each week and make a note of what time you will be together. Be intentional about spending informal social time together and also spending quality time building your soulmate relationship. A regular “date night” is a great idea.
Protect your soulmate relationship
Sometimes healthy jealousy is a must in relationships. If you’re not going to protect your soulmate relationship, who will? Do not allow yourself to be in situations that compromise the integrity of your relationship with your partner. Always remember that soulmate relationships can last forever; make sure your partner’s emotional needs are met. Don’t take it for granted. Your relationship is important.
Don’t forget special occasions!
Use your calendar or the reminder function on your mobile phone; write down birthdays, anniversaries, and special events. Talk about important events and make sure the expectations of both partners are the same. Unnecessary stress can result in a relationship due to unfulfilled expectations. If you want to go for your anniversary, make sure your partner knows! They are not mind readers. It may seem like it takes away your spontaneity and romance, but in the long run, your soulmate relationship will be stronger as a result of discussing these topics.
Introduce surprise in your relationship
Assuming your partner likes surprises and you have time, there are many ways to surprise her. Arrange with your boss that they will take a long lunch break and take them to lunch, send flowers, a card, chocolates; the options are endless and can really add spice to your life together. Interrupt the mundane with a surprise and you’ll be amazed at what it does for your soulmate relationship.
Escape with your friends
If you are in a stable relationship, make sure you don’t become exclusive to your partner and lose all of your friends in the process. This is a common mistake couples make when entering into a relationship. In the beginning everything is new and very exciting and before you know it, you have neglected the old friend that you have had since high school. Friendships are important and it is healthy to have mutual friends and for each person to have their own friends in a relationship. It brings diversity and spending time apart only makes the heart grow bigger!
Become a student of your partner
If you are in a relationship, you must become a full-time student of your partner. Make it your mission to learn everything there is to know about them. Their likes, dislikes, strengths, weaknesses, how they relate to others, how they feel most loved. When you stop focusing on yourself and your needs and focus on your partner, you will find that you are in the process of building a great relationship. As you focus on your partner, they will focus more on you, it is always better to give than to receive!