Why haven’t I met my soulmate yet?

Why is love so elusive? Where is my soulmate? Is there someone out there for me? Why haven’t I found it yet?

This is you?

• You’re looking for a deeper connection than ever before, but you’re not meeting people on the same wavelength.
• You are at an age where you feel the stirring of your soul asking, “Is that all there is?”
• You have been dating and realize that you attract the same type of relationship over and over again.
• You are dating someone and find that you are stuck or stuck, unable to take the next step or doubt yourself.
• You have found someone special, but you do not dare to commit.
• You want to start dating again, but you are still secretly or subconsciously attached to your ex.
• You continue to be treated poorly by your partners or lovers, and yet you cannot leave that relationship.

The five reasons why you are still single

Barriers – the fears that prevent us from living and loving with all our potential. Examples of such fears include:

• “I’m afraid no one wants me like my ex.”
• “I am afraid of losing my freedom.”
• “I’m afraid of conflict.”
• “I hate being vulnerable.”

blocking beliefs – These are the assumptions you have on a conscious or subconscious level that limit how you see yourself, what is possible for you and the world of dating, love, sex, marriage and commitment. Examples include:

• “There’s no one out there for me.”
• “I’m nasty.”
• “All the good ones are taken.”
• “Love must be earned.”
• “Dating is not fun.”
• “I don’t have to do anything to find my soulmate.”

Blind spots – These are the aspects of ourselves that we deny or ignore and that we hate or idealize in others. Examples include:

• “I’m untitled.”
• “I am needy.”
• “I’m controlling.”
• “I’m a people pleaser.”
• “I ignore my own magnificence.”
• “I don’t have those talents/skills.”
• “I am only here to serve, not to receive.”

Biography – Our life experiences, memories and attachments from the past prevent our soul mate from entering our lives. Removing them magnetizes you and makes you irresistible to your soulmate. His biography could be on the way if:

• are you still in love with your ex
• you have unhealed physical, emotional, or sexual trauma
• you had a mentally ill, alcoholic, or absent parent

blah – When you are not living your Purpose, your Soulmate does not find you. When you are aligned with your Soul Path, meeting your Soul Mate is INEVITABLE. You may have a bad case of Blahs if you think:

• Someday my prince will come
• I can’t start my life until I meet someone.
• I do not know who I am
• I don’t know why I’m here