Direct vaginal and clitoral stimulation: pros and cons

In fact, women are luckier than men when it comes to enjoying sex. Before you try to protest this statement, think about the various ways a woman can be stimulated. Vaginal stimulation and nipple stimulation are just 2 of the many techniques that can turn a woman on.

Relationship of the clitoris with vaginal stimulation

When we talk about stimulation of the vagina, the most important part that needs to be considered is definitely the female clitoris. The clitoris is an ultrasensitive organ with a load of nerves.

It looks like a hood of fur placed exactly above the opening of the vulva. If you make good use of the clitoris, you can never go wrong in bringing about an agonizing orgasm in a woman.

There are a large number of women who can experience orgasm through clitoral stimulation alone and not through any other method. So now you have every reason to get familiar with the clitoris as you plan to perform effective vaginal stimulation.

Back of clitoral stimulation

No matter what method you are trying for vaginal stimulation, be sure to stimulate the clitoris simultaneously. The best method is to hold or pinch the clitoris and gently rub it between your 2 fingers or rub it downward using pressure from your index or middle finger.

Another method of stimulating the clitoris is by licking it with your tongue, or an even better technique is to use a feather to tease it.

What not to do to stimulate the clitoris

Many women have an extremely sensitive clitoris and may not tolerate any pressure or stimulation in this area. It is best to use direct vaginal techniques in such hypersensitive women.

Also, by the time you’ve induced a devastating orgasm by stimulating the clitoris, it will become quite sensitive to touch or pressure. Therefore, the second or subsequent rounds of stimulation will require other methods.

So, in the above two situations; get away from the clitoris and leave it alone.

The two of stimulating the vagina

The vagina can be stimulated using a myriad of different things. You can make use of your finger, tongue, lips, a feather, soft silk cloth and the inner part of your thigh, your penis or using any sexual toy or accessory; for example the vibrator or the dildo.

Always remember that the entire vaginal canal does not respond to stimulation in the same way. Even though the entire vaginal passage is massaged or rubbed during sexual intercourse; orgasm can be achieved only when the penis touches the G-spot.

What not to do with vaginal stimulation

The pressure you use to massage the vaginal passage should not be sudden and uncomfortable movements; as such inconsistent moves will only lead to discomfort and aversion to your foreplay.

So don’t be rushed, forceful, or too fast when trying to induce an orgasm by stimulating the vagina.